It is so difficult to make choices especially when envolve love and future, please give me your opinion:
I guess you know, Im a woman from Brasilia, Brazil (the capital of Brazil), I have 42 years and looking for love and after all these years doesnt matter where will be from, lately Im envolved with a man from US, we talked for months online, he called me and it is ok but I want to know him personally, I told that to him and seems soon he will be here.
At the same time this Brazilian start to chat with me and already knew him from a year ago.
Both cool people, very good options for me.
Many things for me envolved on this decision:
- love (give and receive)
- happiness
- my personal future (me+me)
Ah and my personal habits, I dont drink much and just wine, I dont eat meat
For some people it is difficult to deal with it.
I prayed for God many times and I guess he lived open for me taking my decisions and I thanks God for it.
When you start, I mean relationship, you need to be very conscious about what you want and you can give to the other.
To dont make illusions, Im a Lucky woman, I do remember when I have finnished my last relationship, it was a pain for 1 year, can I say that now is worse....be alone :(
The virtuality can make even worse, it is a new concept and in a few ways you never can be sure if it will work for us.
Love is an old concept but still something new until the fall, that sometimes happens. The felling of to be in love and desired is so good even when it is on virtuality. The vituarlity is moving our ideias about fellings that you feel: especially the concept: what is virtual?
What is virtuality?
What do you think is?
- Gilles Deleuze used the term virtual to refer to an aspect of reality that is ideal -
